Thursday, March 18, 2010

Online Tributes to Jennifer


The day after, and I found a couple of tributes about Jennifer online. I've also received so many warm, engaging e-mails and SMSes, even from strangers.

Jr and I are very ok. In fact we feel blessed for all the love and care we've received.


Here are two links, the first from Wai Mun, Jennifer's elder sister and the second from her friend WMW, who has never failed to write a blog post every year:

http://livefreerunfree.blogspot.com/2010/03/nostalgia.html
http://ugwug.blogspot.com/2010/03/remembering-you.html


For the record, I'm in a relationship with a wonderful woman who I cherish very much! ;)

Wednesday, March 17, 2010

Jennifer's Fourth...


















We miss you so Yappers!

Friday, March 12, 2010

Growing Up Junior


Junior continues to grow into this teenager that I am beginning not to recognize. I made a promise to Jennifer that I will love and take care of him more than necessary so he would not want for mother. I look at him these days and know that I have failed.

Yes, I know I'm being hard on myself -- I also know that I'm the best Daddy I can be to him, just failing miserably on the Mummy front.

I believe a Mary Poppins or Sister Maria is required in my situation... what do you think???

Friday, March 5, 2010

March is always the longest month for me...

March is notable for two dates. The first is Jennifer's birthday, 21st, the second is her heavenly birthday, the 17th.

Always hard for me when February ends and March begins.

All the memories. All the thoughts. All the pain.

I hate March.

It used to be the time I would plan to surprise her -- we almost always took a trip. Just the two of us the at first then with Jr later. I would always have the hardest time figuring out what to buy her. Not because she had everything, but because she was so hard to surprise.

But when I managed to, she would grumble, grumble and then smile and laugh that infectious laugh of hers...

*sigh* miss you so Yappie...

March will soon pass, bringing more healing and love.